People misunderstood the term ‘Perfect Relationship‘. Since the meaning of the word perfect is having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be (source Google), then many people thought that perfect relationship means the relationship that have no mistakes and full of love. No fighting, always caring and spoiling each other, no obstacle.
Hell, are you really in relationship with a human? Cause that sounds impossible.
In this world there is no such thing as ‘perfect’. Maybe you can define your 100 score in your tests as perfect but you can’t say a flower is perfect because there is time when it will be faded and die.
See the differences?
Perfect relationship means that both sides can handle each other well. They understand each other, they love each other, and they have faith on each other.
Perfect relationship means both of you can walk through obstacles of life pretty easily. How? You guys talked about it and you don’t keep secrets from each other. You don’t tell how you feels to others but don’t want to be honest with your partner. That is wrong.
Perfect relationship means fighting for small or big things but know how to handle the situation because you put aside your ego and choose to give in.
Perfect relationship means trying your best to keep each other happy and that doesn’t mean you need to shop for her everyday or fulfill his ‘needs’ all the time. Happy in a relationship could be cuddle, late night phone call, there are so many things to do without spending money or energy.
Perfect relationship means loving someone with all your heart that you afraid to hurt them so you choose to take care of them with all you got.
and what is Love?
Love is accepting every single thing about a person either it’s negative or positive.
You are so in love with them that you forgot about all of their flaws.
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